G Spot: What It Is how do you squirt, How to Find It, Sex Positions to Try
Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it’s so different from men. Keep in mind that your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. All of this preparation takes place for the purpose of turning off her logical mind so she can ‘inhabit her body’.
That just goes to show that even if women’s bodies are a bit more nuanced, we’re more than capable of bringing home an orgasm under the right circumstances. Oral contraceptives, anti-anxiety medications, and drugs to treat hypertension can make orgasms less intense and inhibit the ability to orgasm, notes Dweck. Dr. Jolene Brighten NMD, FABNE, is an internationally acclaimed hormone expert, nutrition scientist, and thought leader in women’s medicine. She is board certified in naturopathic endocrinology and trained in clinical sexology. Dr. Brighten is an international speaker, clinical educator, and medical advisor within the fem-tech community.
The first time I squirted, it was a small trickle, so the surprise clean up wasn’t a big deal. Now I would ruin a bed with what feels like liters of fluid (though it is likely not nearly that much) and I won’t let myself come unless I know I’m on a safe surface. We also have waterproof mattress protectors under our bed sheets. If you’ve got a waterproof surface like a Liberator Throe, throe it down (hah!). They’re great for sex fluid clean up regardless of squirting so they’re a pretty awesome investment. You can also get more affordable granny pads designed for incontinence, which are smaller than a Throe but very handy.
This is also a great option if you have a weak lower back. The Launch Pad position also works great if the penetrating partner is not well-endowed. If you’re having trouble with balancing, then just place your feet on the bed/ground and it will be easier. An alternative to the Jockey position is Rear Entry. It’s very similar to the Jockey, except your partner will put their legs inside of yours and keep them straight. This changes the angle of penetration, so your partner will now be applying more pressure on your G Spot with each stroke.
In a partnered experience, open communication with your partner and understanding that this is a natural part of reaching orgasm can make the experience even more rewarding. Also, be ready to talk about what happened, what you liked, and what you did not to bring you closer to your partner. Let him know how he can support you during and after the experience.
